Departing from Disappointment

Matthew 6: 1-6

July 4, 2021 – Gospel

 

Each time I read this passage, I feel badly for Jesus when he is questioned and mocked by those in his hometown, namely his family, and friends. How could he not have disappointed by their responses? Could Jesus even have been surprised at anything?  This gave me the opportunity to reflect on the times disappointment was brought to my doorstep. The times when someone disappointed me in my life are never far from memory.  Disappointment takes on a deeper feeling that even its closest cousin -anger.  Usually, we tend to process anger more effectively, whereas disappointment cuts closer to the heart.

 

Before this Gospel, St. Paul is preaching to the Corinthians and explaining that they (we) should be content with weaknesses, insults, and hardships – all for the sake of Christ.  So how did they (and we) internalize this new message when the world promotes the opposite?  From early on in our lives, we are taught the importance of power, control, and a worldly definition of what success should look like.  I assume that if you are taking the time to read this reflection, perhaps you too know the stinging pain of someone disappointing you.  So, it must have been with Jesus who came home to preach to those closest to him and then was met with criticism and taunts.  The passage ends by saying that Jesus was amazed at their unbelief.  He then departs, leaving the unbelievers with the consequences of their. 

 

Can you recall a time when disappointment came to you?  How did it make you feel and what did you do with this experience? I have had a difficult time forgiving those who disappointed me.  I guess, it all boils down to a choice.  Either you believe or you do not. One can either hold on to the frustration and discouragement or depart from it.  Pray for those who turn their backs on God and try your best to be compassionate ambassadors of the Good News. Your prayers are powerful.

 

The Pilgrim.